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lectrix_lecti ([personal profile] lectrix_lecti) wrote2008-10-25 07:14 pm

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Husband's mother died yesterday.

Hurried to old hometown, did Family Things with husband and his father and sister, am back and trying to figure out what to do with kitty for a few days when I go back for the funeral.

Husband is doing okay. So are his father and sister. In fact, his father is holding up remarkably well despite being the one who's lost the love of his life and had the great misfortune of finding her dead upon returning from Denmark and not being there with her when her body gave up a long and pretty gruesome fight against cancer and terrible cancer treatment.

God, it was weird being in their house without her around.

[identity profile] tragicsupergirl.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
*hug*

(and give one to the husband too)

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 06:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] 1975sherpa.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 06:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear this :(

*hugs*, also for R.

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 06:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] lynkemma.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 06:43 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* I'm sorry. Best wishes to you both.

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] un-crayon-rouge.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 07:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. *sending out hugs to you and husband*

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 07:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] sirje.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
:(

Although, yeah, when it's lasted long and been painful...

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
And would probably have got worse, yeah.

[identity profile] kongulo.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I am so sorry to hear that. Hang in there, both of you.

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 10:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] evig.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Stor klem.

Kondolerer! Det er vanskelig å ordlegge seg skriftlig, men jeg føler virkelig med dere. Virkelig.

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Takk.

[identity profile] she-dragon.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
:(
Jeg var ikke klar over at hun var syk engang. Stor klem til deg, og Rolf spesielt.

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-25 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Takk.

[identity profile] annetten.livejournal.com 2008-10-26 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
Uff, så trist :( Ta godt vare på hverandre.

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-26 07:55 am (UTC)(link)
Vi prøver på det.

[identity profile] disedatter.livejournal.com 2008-10-26 09:28 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I'm so sorry.

*klem*

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-26 09:35 am (UTC)(link)
Takk.

[identity profile] blue-chris.livejournal.com 2008-10-26 09:59 am (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry to hear this! I don´t think anything I can say can help but a big hug for you and mainly for mister R.

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-26 10:02 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] pgmcc.livejournal.com 2008-10-26 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear about your husband's mother dying. Take care of yourself. While it was your husband's mother, you will need a hug too.

[identity profile] lectrix-lecti.livejournal.com 2008-10-26 01:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] skinfaxe.livejournal.com 2008-10-27 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm sorry.